Every suicide in which the victim had experienced abuse at home should be considered a possible murder case, according to demands from advocates who seek to make perpetrators responsible for the catastrophic consequences of their actions.
This step is necessary because police and prosecutors are failing to hold offenders to justice in cases of self-inflicted death following domestic abuse.
“In case after case, there is systemic and structural failure, especially within the criminal justice system, to scrutinise these fatalities with the seriousness they warrant,” remarked a co-director of a advocacy organization at a landmark meeting in London earlier this week.
The meeting, organized by a group running a “Self-Inflicted Death is Murder” initiative to advocate for reform in the criminal justice system, united families who had suffered bereavement to self-inflicted death following domestic abuse.
One mother experienced the death of her child her 23-year-old daughter in spring 2023. Prior to her passing, the young woman had reported her ex-boyfriend to police, providing a two-hour video interview as evidence against him.
After her death, the perpetrator was convicted of coercive and controlling behavior and imprisoned for 41 months. He was subsequently jailed for three years and seven months after a another victim stepped up to disclose that she had been in a harmful partnership with him.
After Chloe’s death, the parent chose to advocate for a legal change to bring perpetrators accountable; yet she then realized that laws were already in place, they just were rarely applied to achieve convictions.
“I concluded it was not a fresh legislation I needed as current statutes were in place, and after learning how much my child had been failed previous to her taking her life by the police and many other agencies, they needed to fulfill their duties, and things needed to change,” she explained.
“Over 47 families have contacted me and just a handful of us have had a conviction,” she continued. “I was astonished to see so many families who have been battling the police and prosecution service for years and receiving no resolution for their child or sibling and could not speak out in case it impacted investigations that were not progressing.”
Saskia Lightburn Richie’s daughter Hannah passed away in spring 2017, in what she called “the final act of violence” in a campaign of abuse.
“She was energetic, she was loving,” she stated. “She was full of promise, and she was an exceptional, deeply devoted mum to her two children, and she died by suicide after 24 months in a partnership where she was methodically broken down by her partner,” she said.
“She was physically beaten, she was mentally tormented, she was controlled and dismantled piece by piece until she was unable to envision a way forward. The man who did this to her went unpunished, because we label it suicide, we conclude the case and we move on.
“Yet I was unable to continue,” she said, “and I haven’t been able to let go. In truth, she did not merely take her own life. She was killed. She was killed slowly and intentionally over a 24-month span, and when I approached the authorities, when I begged them to investigate what he had inflicted upon her, I was told that there was no action that they were able to take.
“No inquiry was conducted into her passing. The domestic violence fatality analysis, which I had to struggle to obtain, required five years and changed nothing. A lengthy coroner’s hearing found death by suicide, despite huge evidence over a very traumatic four day period of domestic abuse and failings by multiple services.”
The parent told the meeting that for a decade she has “struggled against a establishment that ignores what is obvious”.
She emphasized the suicide is homicide campaign was vital “since when an individual takes their own life after they’ve suffered domestic abuse, we have to investigate it for what it truly represents, which is murder.
“We need to apply the laws we already possess effectively and it really isn’t happening at the present, and we need to hold abusers accountable for pushing their targets to suicide.
“We have the laws. We require determination, we need police to conduct thorough inquiries. We need the Crown Prosecution Service to prosecute. We need judges to recognize that verbal abuse and manipulation can cause death just as much as hands and weapons.”
At a second meeting in the Parliament, led by a opposition politician, and including the government official, the bereaved relatives again told their stories.
A parliamentary under-secretary told the meeting: “Such fatalities are often dismissed as if they were their own choice, they chose to do this, when, reality, these were the result of actually, somebody else’s violence, and these aren’t isolated stories.”
“The legal system is flawed, we know that,” she said. “Especially around murder or unlawful killing, it is piecemeal. It lacks statutory basis anyway, it has been developed with common law practices for generations, and it is outdated, quite frankly, given the society we inhabit today.
“I will not claim that it’s going to be easy to resolve. It is incredibly complex and challenging, particularly when you consider the matter of homicide, but we acknowledge that it requires examination.”
A representative for the legal body said: “Family violence is a heinous offense and our prosecutors are regularly instructed to evaluate murder and manslaughter charges in self-inflicted death instances where there is a established background of domestic abuse or other controlling or coercive behavior.
“We have previously charged a several individuals for causing the death of a companion they mistreated, including in proceedings which are currently active.
“We are also working with law enforcement and other stakeholders to guarantee these kinds of offences are well-understood – so that we can bring perpetrators accountable for the complete scope of their wrongdoings.”
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